Jennifer Lopez has made her first public appearance since her highly publicized divorce from Ben Affleck, and she is now featured on the cover of Interview magazine. In a candid conversation with comedian Nikki Glaser, Lopez discussed how a tumultuous summer affected her personal outlook on life.
1. A Turbulent Summer
Lopez's summer was marked by a canceled tour, the end of her marriage to Ben Affleck, and intense online scrutiny. Despite these challenges, she remains an unshakeable force in the entertainment industry. As she noted, 'It wasnt the summer Jennifer Lopez was hoping for. A canceled tour, the end of a marriage, and an internet pile-on that felt particularly brutal, even to an entertainer who has literally done and seen it all.'
However, this period of turmoil has also been transformative for Lopez. She emphasized the importance of self-love and personal growth, stating, 'The work is figuring yourself out. Its looking back at the feelings underneath and the belief systems that we have about ourselves that make us make certain choices and create certain patterns in our life.'
2. Finding Self-Love and Completeness
Lopez has been open about her journey with self-esteem, acknowledging that it is a lifelong process. She shared, 'My whole life has been proving my enoughness. Dealing with feeling like youre enough, from when youre very young, is something that you dont figure out for a long time, because youre not looking at yourself like that.'
She emphasized the importance of being healthy and complete before seeking something more complete. Lopez stated, 'You have to be good on your own. I thought I learned that, but I didnt. And then, this summer, I had to be like, I need to go off and be on my own. I want to prove to myself that I can do that.'
3. Newfound Singleness and Future Plans
Lopez expressed her newfound singleness with a sense of hope and excitement. When asked if she was looking for anyone, she replied, 'Heres the thing: Theres no new bar because Im not looking for anybody. Hows that?' She added, 'Now Im excited, when you say youre just going to be on your own.'
Lopez's focus on self-improvement and personal growth has brought her new perspectives. She noted, 'But you have to be healthy. You have to be complete, if you want something thats more complete.' This mindset has allowed her to navigate the challenges of her recent past with resilience.
In conclusion, Jennifer Lopez's journey through a tumultuous summer has been one of self-discovery and growth. Her commitment to self-love and personal development has positioned her for a promising future, both personally and professionally.
